Kornbread&Kollardgreens: In the Streets

In the Streets: Where I conduct interviews with men and women to discuss their experiences with past/present/future relationships, dating, sex, etc. Get ready for candid conversations and much-needed life lessonsMake yourself at home. Put on a comfortable pair of pajamas, Play a little jazz to set the mood, Grab a glass (a bottle is recommended) of your favorite wine, Sit back, and Relax. 


 Thoughts from a Married Woman

I am ecstatic about my first ever bloggerview (inserts a round of applause). I composed a list of notable questions to ask my very first interviewee. I must admit, I was a bit nervous before hitting the infamous send button on Gmail.

I contacted SinaBlaze and she was more than willing to add a little flavor to the blog. “SinaBlaze” is a 29 year old married woman. She currently resides in San Clemente, CA with her husband of five years, her beautiful daughter, and her handsome little man. She’s a stay at home mom and when asked about her sexual orientation (some couples are into swinging, all female threesomes, and sharing the goodies), she states (with much vigor) … “I love the male anatomy.” So, don’t even think about that crazy “ish.”

Without further ado, let’s start this bloggerview …

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NOTE TO INTERVIEWEE: This is a candid interview. Feel free to express yourself. No sugar-coating or syrup spilling. Dateless in Carolina believes in realism. I encourage people to be open and honest – Most of all, Have Fun!

Serious More Personal Questions

How would you describe the “perfect” relationship? How would you describe your relationship?

Ha! Perfect relationship? Well, I would say one that involves being able to read each others minds, but that is in a “Perfect world” that does not exist! Now, my marriage is far from perfect. We both are in love and we truly love each other I believe those are two different things and I feel you need both to survive a marriage. We do have our own ways of communicating with each other that can be worked on, but at the end of the day he is my best friend and I am his. He is the goofy one and I take things a little more seriously so we kind of balance each other out. All in all we are a work in progress that can only get stronger because we were already built on a strong foundation of trust and friendship.

How long have you been married, engaged, or involved? Do you feel he is your soul mate … the yang to your yin?

We have been married for 5 years now … January 15 is our anniversary. I believe he is my soul mate because I can look at any other man in this world and be attracted to them, but there is no one else like my husband. I mean I can’t picture living a life without him. He was in my dreams and it’s crazy, but I even had a dream of what our son would look like before he was even thought of. So, because of my faith I believe he was definitely meant for me(Honey, I almost shed a few tears. Many women, like myself, are waiting for that one blessing … that one man our soul yearns-Grab a few tissues blog family)

How did you meet? Where? What time of day (morning, noon, night)?

We met at work while I was still enlisted in the Marine Corps working at Parris Island. We were both instructors teaching potential Marines. I remember the first time we actually had a conversation we were working on Land Navigation and he had only been there for a couple of weeks. I was trying to keep it fun by having a conversation because we had to be out in the woods at night waiting for these recruits to get done with their navigation mission. I was convinced that he wasn’t really keen to working with a female because he wasn’t saying much, but later down the line it turned out that he preferred dating black women and he was secretly attracted to me.

Were you attracted to him at first sight? Do you believe in love at first sight? or Should we call it lust at first sight (men and women are visual and sexual hunters and huntresses by nature)?

I honestly do believe in love at first sight, but it wasn’t that way for me because I wasn’t really paying him any attention I had too much going on in my life to really be worrying about “love” … but, when he started showing interest in me and showing that he was serious then I took that seriously. I knew he was genuine and wasn’t trying to just sleep with me.

Would you say your past prepared you for your present relationship (we often hear “if I didn’t go through the shit I went through with him or her I wouldn’t appreciate my current relationship”)?

My past has definitely prepared me for the now lol where do I start … I am a divorcee my first was a liar, a cheater, and a wanna be con artist who put me in debt oh and left behind a child. The main thing I learned from that was the next guy I marry will have to accept my daughter and treat her right. I also learned that you cannot change a guy that doesn’t want to change so it’s best to just not be insecure and never let a guy feel like he has you in his back pocket because you are easily disposable, but so is he. With my husband, we joke a lot about looking at other people and the what if’s … but, we know that we would never cheat on each other. I am secure with myself and I trust him to trust me.

If you are married, engaged, or involved, what attracted you to your mate? How far do you go (or would you go) to keep the sparks flying?

I was attracted to how genuine he was … I mean he is not super fine, but he is handsome and sexy to me and that’s all that matters. I have had multiple conversations with him about our sexual adventures and there are certain lines I Will Not Cross … LOL! but, I am open to negotiations in other areas … (Ladies, it’s okay to take intimate excursions with YOUR COMMITTED MATE … Lighten up! Be free! If he can “go down” you can “stroke it up” … SinaBlaze is even open to negotiations)

Would you say intimacy is better as a single woman (man) or better when you’re involved with someone (married, engaged, or involved)? If you feel comfortable answering, share with readers what you do to keep the candles lit or his interest in the bedroom? (Some women and men tend to think that being “extra” in the bedroom is an unnecessary task) (You don’t have to get too personal – we wouldn’t want anyone trying to climb down your chimney or looking through your window at night just to get a quick glimpse at his or her ass in the air)

For me, intimacy is better when you are emotionally connected. It just feels comfortable being vulnerable in that way when it’s with someone you are connected to. I am not going to say just married people because today in this day and age people are okay with being committed, but not married … that’s just my opinion and I know first hand it just hurts when you are with a “random” LOL! I don’t know you (the random) to actually enjoy the sex. I don’t knock anyone who likes the challenge of being with someone different versus the same person all the time to each his own.

What three things are most important to you in a relationship? Out of the three, what do you do the most? What does your mate do the most?

Honesty, Communication, and Trust are definitely important factors in having a committed relationship. We both are honest and trustworthy to each other, but like any other couple we are still not perfect and have to continue working on our communication.

Describe your mate in three words

Handsome, Generous, Funny

Quirky Questions (Sometimes you must loosen the belt a little and get dirty)

If you could fly anywhere in the world with your mate, where would it be? Why?

Well, I would want to fly to Europe and then sail around to Italy, Greece, and Rome and any other beautiful country we could get to by sea.

If you could do anything (legal or illegal without repercussions) with your mate, what would it be?

This is mostly something my husband would want and even though it’s legal in certain areas now the obvious is getting high just so you don’t have to think of the important things in life for a little while. LOL!

Do you feel at your best with or without your mate?

I feel at times things could be better, but I definitely would be in a darker head space if he was not in my life. Right now I am still working on being my best for him.

If you could exchange your mate in for a celebrity, who would it be?

We joke about this all the time, but he says “Shakira” and I say,  “fine you can have her … but I’m trading you in for The Rock AKA Dwayne Johnson.” LOL! (Now, take that Shakira)

If your mate was a body part (vagina, penis, butt, leg, arm, breasts, scrotum, etc.), what would he be? Why?

Ummm a Penis duh! LOL! … What am I supposed to do with those other parts!!!! Isn’t that what men are only good for anyway? *WINK*

What advice would you give to a single woman (man) who is looking for a mate?

This might be a little long, but I would say be careful what you wish for. I wished so bad for God to send me someone. I was sooo tired of watching all the bad girls get the guys they didn’t deserve, but I was sent two guys who treated me like shit and I didn’t deserve that. What I realized was God will send you what you asked for, but not what you need because the lesson is he will put someone in your life when he feels you are ready to receive the one meant for you so be patient you will not be alone for long. You have to take care of you first and be secure within yourself in order to handle the next man who comes in your life because there are just certain things that cannot be accepted and you should never settle because it is convenient. Most important is to my black women… please learn that it is okay to date outside of your race. I am sooo sick and tired of hearing black women say I can’t do that!!! Well go ahead and keep on doing the same shit and you’re going to keep getting the same results. Don’t let society dictate who you’re supposed to be with and screw what your friends think because it’s your life and not theirs. Love comes in different shapes, colors, and sizes. And hell, if it doesn’t work for you then at least you can say you tried. (Now, this deserves Two Snaps, A Spin, and A Twirl)

 

What a trooper! She handled this with ease. Most of all, she had fun and probably learned more about herself and her relationship. We all can learn a few valuable lessons from SinaBlaze … she is living proof that souls can connect and that love comes in all forms (i.e. colors, sizes, races,  religions). Thank you SinaBlaze for sharing a small portion of your life with Dateless in Carolina. I appreciate your honesty and comedic flair.

♥Hugs, Kisses, and Lots more Lovies♥


Thoughts from a Single Mom

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Ms. Summer is a 33-year-old single mom with two beautiful teenage girls. She currently resides in Columbia, SC and spends her 40 hour work week as an AR Representative and Benefits Specialist. She is currently not looking for a man, but hoping one would find her in the near future.

Well, without further hesitation, I bring forth Summer’s single mom compilation …

NOTE TO INTERVIEWEE: This is a candid interview. Feel free to express yourself. No sugar-coating or syrup spilling. Dateless in Carolina believes in realism. I encourage people to be open and honestMost of all, Have Fun!

Serious More Personal Questions

How would you describe the “perfect” relationship? How would you describe your current relationship status (slow and steady, dry and dusty, fast and the furious)?

I don’t think that there is such a thing as a perfect relationship being that we each grow on a daily basis and try to improve ourselves and that in turn will overflow into our lives. If both parties are giving their all then that is all that can be asked of them.  My current relationship is slow and steady we enjoy each other’s company and have intriguing conversations and most of all we laugh together and encourage one another as we try to reach our goals.

How long have you been single? Do you see yourself being in a relationship in the near future (tomorrow, next week, next month – just speaking it into the universe for you)?

I have been single since 2010 that is the last time I feel that I was in a real relationship. I would say I see myself getting into a relationship in Ummm well … Not trying to rush things I guess I will have to see …

Where do you usually go to meet people? Have you ever stepped outside of your comfort zone?

The place I tend to meet people the most is in the grocery store and that is odd because at those times I don’t tend to look my best. LOL! I guess that is a good thing Huh. I sometimes go out on the town and go dancing and that is a little out of my comfort zone.

What is it about a man that you find the most attractive?

Eyes, Teeth, and Smile

What exactly are you looking for in a potential mate?

I am looking for someone who is open and honest and knows how to first love and treat themselves and then I know for a fact that they can care for me.

Do you have a friend with benefits, cuddle buddy, freak for the night or a booty call?

No, I never had that I think that intimacy is between a couple.  (I couldn’t agree with her more on this. Intimacy is shared between two consenting individuals that have a unique connection. Their spark may cause a sexual explosion.)

What are your thoughts on casual/no commitment sex?

I think that it can be dangerous because emotions do get involved

Would you say intimacy is better as a single woman (man)? or Do you think it’ll be better when you’re involved with someone (married, engaged, or involved)? If you feel comfortable answering, share with readers what you do to keep the candles lit or his (her) interest in the bedroom? (Some women and men tend to think that being “extra” in the bedroom is an unnecessary task) (You don’t have to get too personal – we wouldn’t want anyone trying to climb down your chimney or looking through your window at night just to get a quick glimpse at his or her ass in the air)

I think there’s nothing like passion especially when you’re with someone who you love or can grow to love.

What three things are most important to you in a relationship?

Love, Trust, and Communication

Describe your perfect mate in three words

Passionate, Caring, Loyal

Would you travel across the country to meet your ideal mate? If so, where?

Yes, I would love me a few French men … LOL!

Have you ever tried online dating? If so, what site? How was your experience?

Yes it was great! I met some great people and we have become friends.

Would you date someone outside of your race?

Yes, I am open to it I think that love goes beyond ethnicity

If you were approached by someone and they asked, “Hey Baby, you are looking good tonight. Can I take you home with me?” How would you respond?

Ummm… No,  I am worth more than a “kat call” … I might not even respond that is the biggest turn off to me.

Is your partner’s religious affiliation important? Should you share the same religious beliefs? Why or Why not?

Yes it is they must be God-fearing and believe in a higher power than themselves.

 Quirky Questions

If you could fly anywhere in the world with your perfect match, where would it be? Why?

We would fly to Africa.  I just would like to see the beauty of the motherland.

If you could do anything (legal or illegal without repercussions) with your perfect match, what would it be?

Take a long vacation on an isolated island

Describe the best sex in three words

LOL! Speechless!

What advice would you give to other single women (men) who are looking for a potential mate?

Look within yourself and make sure that you are whole as a person and from there everything will fall into place.

Describe the perfect vagina (penis) – Ha! I went there! Answer the question, my readers are adults.

I don’t look! LOL! (Uh, ma’am I would hope you would … and you have 2 kids LOL!)

If you could date a celebrity, who would it be? Why?

Adam Levine! He can sing and he is gorgeous. (Wait! Did you not read my blog before this interview?!? Adam Levine is MINE!)

 

It took me pulling teeth, hair, and biting a few nails off to get an interview with Ms. Summer. She was a little hesitant at first. To ease her nervousness, I did the ultimate business move … involuntary intoxication and bribery. I had to slip her a shot or two of tequila and promise her front row seats to a Chippendales show (she wants to taste the sweat and feel the “twins” against her cheek).  Ha Ha! Now, that was hard work. 

Thank you again Summer! Mr. “Right on Time” is being paged! 

♥Peace and Love♥


   Thoughts from a Single Woman

IMG_1414Hello World! I introduce to you … Charmayne. She is a spunky and charismatic 25-year-old single woman. Charmayne currently resides in Columbia, SC and spends her 40 hour work week as a Data/Financial Analyst. She’s open to dating men or women. She believes that love comes in a complete male or female package. She’s a believer in speaking your desires into existence … asking the universe for guidance.

Without further ado, let’s get to this bloggerview …

NOTE TO INTERVIEWEE: This is a candid interview. Feel free to express yourself. No sugar-coating or syrup spilling. Dateless in Carolina believes in realism. I encourage people to be open and honest-Most of all, Have Fun!

Serious, More Personal Questions 

How would you describe the “perfect” relationship? How would you describe your current relationship status (slow and steady, dry and dusty, fast and the furious)?

A perfect relationship to me is being able to connect and understand each
other on all levels. My current relationship status is slow and steady
which I love because we are getting know each other and who we are at the
same time.

How long have you been single? Do you see yourself being in a
relationship in the near future (tomorrow, next week, next month – just
speaking it into the universe for you)?

I’ve been single for almost a year. I’m loving each moment.  I feel like we are meant to be with someone. So, yes I do and hopefully it’s my soul mate.

Where do you usually go to meet people? Have you ever stepped outside of
your comfort zone?

I usually meet people online, work and different events. Yes, I have. Stepping outside of my comfort zone is a great feeling knowing what I am capable of.

What is it about a woman (man) that you find the most attractive?

Personality and the way they use their words. Also, how their clothes fit their body.

What exactly are you looking for in a potential mate?

I’m looking for love in a potential mate who knows how to give and receive
love. A person’s words aligned with their actions.

Do you have a friend with benefits, cuddle buddy, freak for the night or
a booty call?

It depends on what mood I am in,  but I have them all. (Wait! You have them all! More power has been given to you … This woman has a few alter egos)

What are your thoughts on casual/no commitment sex?

I think its most needed when you are focused on your life goals. Usually it develops into more depending on the individuals.

Would you say intimacy is better as a single woman (man)? or Do you think it’ll be better when you’re involved with someone (married, engaged, or involved)? If you feel comfortable answering, share with readers what you  do to keep the candles lit or his (her) interest in the bedroom? (Some women and men tend to think that being “extra” in the bedroom is an unnecessary task) (You don’t have to get too personal – we wouldn’t want anyone trying to climb down your chimney or looking through your window at night just to get a quick glimpse at his or her ass in the air)

I like it both ways depending on how close we are. I don’t do much just
light some candles around the tub and put oils in the water or wear
lingerie some times. Oh yea, I like to give full body massages. (Creating a comfortable and personable ambiance for your mate would definitely cause sparks and may even ignite an infinite flame)

What three things are most important to you in a relationship?

Communication, Time and Affection

Describe your perfect mate in three words

Open mind, Loyal and Intellectual

Would you travel across the country to meet your ideal mate? If so,
where?

Yes, Germany.

Have you ever tried online dating? If so, what site? How was your
experience?

Yes, tinder. I’m enjoying my time spent with this individual. (You must teach me the Tinder Code of Dating … I must be doing something completely wrong. Some guys over 30 tend to be looking for women under 25 or still playing that corny game of “Dine You, Screw Me”… that topic will be in a later blog post; And, many are still confused or unsure of what they want)

How do you feel about online dating? 

It’s the same as meeting someone at an event or work to me.

Would you date someone outside of your race?

Oh yes, that’s how I learn.

If you were approached by someone and they asked, “Hey Baby, you are
looking good tonight. Can I take you home with me?” How would you respond?

Hell no, but thanks for asking. Laugh at them and walk away.

Is your partner’s religious affiliation important? Should you share the
same religious beliefs? Why or Why not?

No, because that is a personal choice. Religion is something I don’t like to force on anyone.

Quirky Questions (Getting Down and Dirty with Charmayne)

If you could fly anywhere in the world with your perfect match, where
would it be? Why?

Barbados because there maybe places where I can express myself physically all the time.

If you could do anything (legal or illegal without repercussions) with
your perfect match, what would it be?

I would have sex in public. (Well, damn! Do your thing! But, who wouldn’t?!?)

Describe the best sex in three words

Orgasmic, Intense and Intimate

What advice would you give to other single women (men) who are looking for a potential mate?

Tell the universe in detail what you kind of mate you would like to be with and feel every word you utter.

Describe the perfect vagina (penis) ? Ha! I went there! Answer the
question, my readers are adults.

Not too long, thick, less hair and odorless … Wet all the time, fat, minimal hair and odorless

If you could date a celebrity, who would it be? Why?

The Weekend because I would want him to write a song about our epic experience together. Rihanna because she’s fucking sexy. Also, she looks like a great lover.

 

Well, Well … Ms. Charmayne left some of you speechless. What a firecracker! I remember when I was 25 years old … living semi-wild and free. Without a doubt, she brought much character and realness.

Thank you Charmayne for allowing Dateless in Carolina into your life. Continue to allow the universe to guide you. Your path will lead to something true and extraordinary.

♥Peace and Hugs♥


 Thoughts from a Single Man

IMG_1558-1I finally snagged a male for a Dateless in Carolina Bloggerview (inserts a round of applause). Mr. J. Stevens is 37 years old and currently resides in Saluda, South Carolina. He spends most of his time at Amick Farms as an IT Tech (Ladies, he’s single and a tech-geek I sense a little computer love). Mr. Stevens was a bit like Ms. Summer with his hesitant response (after being asked to participate in my relationship “study”). I only had to bribe him with a cold six-pack of beer and a college (Clemson) football koozie.

Without any further hesitation, let’s get right to the conversation.

NOTE TO INTERVIEWEE: This is a candid interview. Feel free to express yourself. No sugar-coating or syrup spilling. Dateless in Carolina believes in realism. I encourage people to be open and honest – Most of all, Have Fun!

Serious, More In-Depth Questions

How would you describe the “perfect” relationship? How would you describe your current relationship status (slow and steady, dry and dusty, fast and the furious)?  

The “perfect” relationship? Does that exist lol? I would have to say the best relationship is one that survives regardless of how many obstacles comes your way. There will always be times where there are disagreements, arguments, and etc… but a “perfect” relationship will not only survive those times, but become stronger because of them. (Well said, through it all an imperfectly perfect relationship can withstand the test of time; if both parties are willing to be the “foundation” of their relationship).

How would you describe your current relationship status (slow and steady, dry and dusty, fast and the furious)?

Being single my relationship status could be described as cold and stale lol! However, I have been trying to date a little so it’s trying to warm up and pick up steam. (Many of us can relate; I’m still trying to figure out the best way to keep the teapot warm)

How long have you been single? Do you see yourself being in a relationship in the near future (tomorrow, next week, next month – just speaking it into the universe for you)?

I’ve been single for 2 years now, and after being in a 9 year relationship, I just see myself enjoying the moment so if a relationship comes, it comes, I’m in no rush.

Where do you usually go to meet people? Have you ever stepped outside of your comfort zone?

Actually, most people I met were through either mutual acquaintances or happen to attend the same school or work the same job. I’ve never “went out” and met someone. Honestly, I’ve never actually approached anyone before lol! It’s amazing I’ve had any relationships. But, as far as stepping out of my comfort zone, not really. Maybe I need to get out more and be more aggressive. Hmmm … (Team Aggressive-Join the club Mr. Stevens)

What is it about a woman that you find the most attractive?

A pretty smile and dimples (I hope you are referring to the “dimples” on her face Mr. Stevens)  Yikes! A confident, not arrogant, woman who is very attractive. A woman who knows she’s pretty, but doesn’t act like she’s the greatest creation put on the planet … that will always win me over.

What exactly are you looking for in a potential mate?  

It may sound cliché and shallow even, but I want an attractive lady, that’s smart, respectful, and not afraid to get her nails dirty. I like sports so if she can watch and play with me, that’s heaven. Also, I’m looking to be father so she would have to want kid(s).

Do you have a friend with benefits, cuddle buddy, freak for the night or a booty call?

Not at the moment, but sure could use one during these cold nights! 

What are your thoughts on casual/no commitment sex? 

We’re all grown, and if you know what you want, just be upfront about it. I believe there is an unfair stigma placed on “hooking up”. If you want to have casual sex, do it! Just don’t lie and lead a person on, and above all else, protect yourself! One more thing, be honest with yourself. If you know you can’t have sex without an emotional connection, don’t, this goes back to being upfront. Hey who knows, that one night fling can turn in a life time thing! (Bring the heat Mr. Stevens – Not all women or men can control their emotions or feelings when accepting the postion of a “hook-up” or “booty buddy” – I speak on this topic all the time)

Would you say intimacy is better as a single woman (man)? or Do you think it’ll be better when you’re involved with someone (married, engaged, or involved)? If you feel comfortable answering, share with readers what you do to keep the candles lit or his (her) interest in the bedroom? (Some women and men tend to think that being “extra” in the bedroom is an unnecessary task) (You don’t have to get too personal – we wouldn’t want anyone trying to climb down your chimney or looking through your window at night just to get a quick glimpse at his or her ass in the air) 

This is a good question! I believe ultimately intimacy is much better when you’re involved. The connection is greater, you actually care about pleasing your mate so you will find ways to do so. To keep the flame going is simple to me, just do what it takes. Trust and believe if there’s something you won’t do, there’s another person who’s willing! With that said, do what you’re comfortable with lol. There will be compromises made during relationships, but if you can’t/won’t do what is asked of you, then maybe that person isn’t for you.

What three things are most important to you in a relationship?  

Honesty, Trust, and Communication: If I can’t be honest with you, can’t trust you, or can’t talk to you and vice versa, then what are we here for? 

Describe your perfect mate in three words 

Beautiful, Intelligent, Adventurous

Would you travel across the country to meet your ideal mate? If so, where?

Sure I would. This would be part of stepping out of my comfort zone! I would go to California just because I’ve never been to the West Coast, and to check out Hollywood. 

Have you ever tried online dating? If so, what site? How was your experience?  

Yes I have dabbled in online dating. I’m a part of many sites: POF (Plenty Of Fish), OKCupid, Tagged, Chemistry, and Match.com (I think that’s all of them). Just like regular dating to me. The good thing about online dating is IF they made an honest profile (and people can lie to you in person as well), you know exactly what you’re getting into. You can see how they look, what they like, what they are looking for, and so on… I’ve met a couple of nice ladies which I feel I have made good connections with. Also I have met a few that weren’t as advertised, but they may have felt the same way about me. I would have to say I liked the online dating experience because there isn’t much difference between it and regular dating.

Would you date someone outside of your race?  

Sure, I’m open to it.

If you were approached by someone and they asked, “Hey Baby, you are looking good tonight. Can I take you home with me?” How would you respond?  

Well first of all it better be a woman, or we’re gonna have a problem lol! I think I would be flattered and reply with a “Maybe, are you single? And if so what are we doing when we get there?”

Is your partner’s religious affiliation important? Should you share the same religious beliefs? Why or Why not?

I think it depends on what kind of relationship you have. If it’s just a fling or you two know it’s not going to build or grow into anything, then no it shouldn’t matter. Now, if you’re planning on a serious relationship/marriage then it’s very important, and should be discussed well before y’all make a serious commitment. Religious conflicts can mean the end of a relationship, so no need to go down that road if it can be avoided.

Quirky Questions

If you could fly anywhere in the world with your perfect match, where would it be? Why?

Paris, France of course! The City of Love needs no explanation! 

If you could do anything (legal or illegal without repercussions) with your perfect match, what would it be?  

Streaking at a sporting event lol! We could run, hide, and have some fun after that cheap thrill! 

Describe the best sex in three words 

Animalistic, Orgasmic, Passionate

Describe the perfect vagina (penis) – Ha! I went there! Answer the question, my readers are adults.

My oh my! The perfect vagina would be pretty, wet, smell like water, taste like water. Like Morris Chestnut said in The Best Man, “Cause the pussy curves to my dick.”(We’re grown right?) Meaning it fits just right for me. Nice and tight like a glove. PERFECT! (LOL! Men and their gloves)

 If you could date a celebrity, who would it be? Why? 

Sanaa Lathan had me since Love and Basketball. She’s just beautiful, the right amount of sophistication, with that girl next door kind of appeal. That’s my fantasy girl right there!

What advice would you give to other single women (men) who are looking for a potential mate?

Being that I’m still single, I don’t know how well received this advice will be. What I have learned from experience is patience, patience, patience! Don’t go rushing into a relationship just because you’re lonely or because all your friends are getting hitched. Take your time and learn who this person is you’re talking to. Be honest about your intentions and let everything just flow naturally and you will know if that person is for you. If it doesn’t work out, it’s not the end of the world, just the beginning of a new journey. Don’t be afraid to go outside your comfort zone, change your scenery, or change the type of woman you look for, or just don’t be afraid to change period. Most importantly, never settle! If you know what you want then by all means go get it, but be honest with yourself during this process. Make sure you can match or exceed what you are looking for, and be realistic about your expectations. Don’t go to Zaxbys looking for a Big Mac, you’re never gonna find it. I could say more but my fingers are getting tired lol! Bottom line, all of this requires patience!! (Well received Mr. Stevens. I’ve learned so much about myself during this newfound journey. We all must “keep it real” with ourselves first- before we make the mistake of releasing the “flesh” into a typhoon of unhappiness)

 

And, those are words from a single man. Are women truly from Venus? Are men truly from Mars? In a sense, we all tend to think and act according to our stance in life. However, psychological and physical differences between both genders still remain.

Thank you Mr. J. Stevens for giving us a brief “tour” inside of your life (while single). You brought the “real” and added a comedic flair to your commentary. I may ask you to be a guest “speaker” on a future blog post.

 

♥Peace and Happiness Shall Remain♥


 

 

 

 

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